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Writer's picturePatricia Blanco

Who is watching your shoes?

Updated: Jul 9, 2023



Ah, shoes! What can we say? They reveal quite a bit about a person. Humans are notorious for staring at each other's shoes, whether they are sneakers, sandals, boots, or high heels. But have you ever noticed that men and women look at each other's shoes differently? It's a hilarious cultural phenomenon, and I'll explain it.


First up, let's talk about men.


Men are only interested in one thing when they examine another man's or woman's footwear: the label. That's exactly right. To a man, a logo is everything. Depending on the brand, they'll study your footwear for at least five minutes before nodding their approval or scoffing at their disapproval. When discussing sneakers, this behavior becomes incredibly "acute." The significance of shoes hinges on their names.


In General, guys are not much into fashion, so they will only be interested in your shoes if you wear sneakers or they are somewhat flamboyant. If a man notices your shoes, he will do it exaggeratedly, without any concealment, and most likely, he will bring up the topic in the conversation, so it's better to be prepared!


Now, let's move on to women.


When women look at other people's shoes, they look at the whole package. Sure, they might notice the brand, but they're also looking at the shoes' style, color, and condition. And they're not just looking at your shoes; they're looking at your entire outfit. Are your shoes matching your shirt? Do they complement your pants? Are they in good shape or scuffed up? When checking out someone's shoes, these questions run through a woman's mind.


But it doesn't stop there. Women also look at how you're walking in your shoes. Are you wobbling in those high heels? Are your toes squished in those pointy flats? Are you walking confidently or hobbling along like you're about to fall over? These are all things that women take into consideration when checking out someone's footwear.



Women are notorious for sizing up each other's feet. They'll stare at your shoes and try to guess what size you wear, and if they're feeling particularly competitive, they might even compare their own foot size to yours. It's like a weird shoe-size Olympics. So, next time you're out and about, take a good look at the shoes around you and have a laugh at the quirks of a human shoe obsession.


Of course, there are always exceptions to these gender norms. Some men might be just as interested in the style and condition of shoes as women are, and some women might be all about the brand names. But overall, it's a pretty accurate representation of how the two genders tend to approach the shoe-checking game.


What About your mother?


Mothers have a special radar for detecting daughters' shoes. She sees them from the other end of the house, whatever you are wearing, and comes running up to you to examine them very carefully. Sounds familiar? Sometimes, you may feel like you are on a runway and your mother is the fashion critic.



The best part is when moms start grilling you on your shoes like it's the greatest mystery in the world. How much did they cost? Are they comfortable? Where did you buy them? Who went with you to the store? It's their way of demonstrating they care about us and a great way to have FUN with us, so don't be too put off if it makes you uncomfortable sometimes. Knowing that someone in your own family will always be there to critique your sense of style is reassuring.


Sisters don't lag behind


Oh, sisters and their shoe obsession!" They can't stop staring at each other's feet and commenting on them, whether it's to borrow a pair they like or criticize the other's footwear. If one sister likes the other's shoes, an epic debate will erupt about who gets to wear them first. Nothing is more meaningful to a sister than the exchange of shoes! But if one sister doesn't like the other's shoes, her judgment is harsh. Even if the shoe owner argues that they are comfortable and that he likes them, the other sister will scream about them,



Have you ever heard? "I don't know how you can wear those shoes; they look like ugly ducklings." Although it may appear overdone at times, it is simply another manifestation of sisterly love and competitiveness. Have you been there?


More things people observe


Let's not forget the ultimate shoe flex - the designer shoe. Whether it's a pair of Louboutin heels or Gucci loafers, designer shoes can send both men and women into a frenzy. It's like a status symbol that says, "I've got money to burn, and I'm not afraid to show it off on my feet." Of course, not everyone can afford designer shoes, but that doesn't stop people from ogling at them and dreaming of owning a pair one day.

What about Your Date?


But what about when it comes to shoes in the dating game? Oh, you better believe that shoes matter there too. Women will scrutinize a man's shoes just as much as they'll scrutinize his outfit, looking for signs of style, taste, and attention to detail. And men? Well, they'll usually make sure their own shoes are clean and presentable and hope that the women don't notice if they're not wearing the latest trendy sneakers.


In the end, shoes are just one small part of our overall appearance, but they can make a big impact. They can make us feel confident and stylish, or they can make us feel uncomfortable and out of place. So next time you pick out a pair of shoes, remember that people might be looking. And if you're feeling brave, go ahead and try out a bold new style - who knows, you might start a shoe trend all on your own.


It is time to enjoy our beautiful and comfortable collection on MyShoeJourney.com and get ready to buy these pairs that could wow everyone!




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